June 12, 2023 | Kashmir POST

Exploring the stages of the Anxious / Avoidant Trap in Relationships

June 12, 2023 Editor

From early phase to the healing stage, here are a few ways by which the anxious/avoidant trap works in a relationship. This is the non-win trap between a partner who is seeking connections, and a partner that is running away from growing real connections. This anxious/avoidant trap can be extremely draining for the partners. “Let’s dive into the dreaded Anxious/Avoidant trap. Buckle up because we’re about to unravel the phases of this rollercoaster ride! Some statistics I’ve read said that as many as 80% of couples mirror this dynamic. Wow!…

Pakistan scheduled to visit India for ODI World Cup and Host four matches in Asia Cup 2023: Report

June 12, 2023 Editor

The Asian Cricket Council headed by BCCI secretary Jay Shah could accept PCB chairman Najam Sethi’s proposed ‘Hybrid Model’ for conducting four non-India Asia Cup games in Pakistan while the rest of the matches will be played in Sri Lanka’s Galle and Pallekele. The ACC is likely to make a formal announcement on Tuesday and once the Hybrid Model is officially accepted, decks will be cleared for the Pakistan team’s travel to India for the ODI World Cup scheduled in October-November. Now, Pakistan will have no problems playing in Ahmedabad. “Oman…

Bemina witnesses Massive Protest against Smart Meter Installation; Residents Raise Concerns

June 12, 2023 Editor

Local residents staged a protest against the installation of smart meters in the Bemina area of Srinagar. Eyewitnesses told The KIF that on Monday morning, women in large numbers gathered on the Bemina road in the Srinagar area to protest the installation of smart electricity meters. On one side, Kashmir is suffering immensely due to the unending power cuts despite the hot summer and on the other we fail to understand the purpose of these meters when the officials state that the meters will ensure that electricity will be provided…

Uttarakhand: From Cross Marks on Doors to Cries of Extermination, Examining the Rise of Hate Speech

June 12, 2023June 12, 2023 Editor

A campaign by Hindutva supporters to drive out supposedly ‘illegal’ Muslim shopkeepers and vendors from the state comes along with various kinds of attempts, coupled with the government’s inaction against hate campaigners in the state, in creating fear among Muslims in the state. By: Alishan Jafri Videos of disturbing hate speeches and instances of vigilantism have emerged from Uttarakhand amidst the recent campaign by Hindutva supporters to drive out supposedly “illegal” Muslim shopkeepers and vendors from the state. The new charge against the minority, that of “vyapar jihad” literally translates…

Rescue Operation saves Non-Local Children forced into begging in Srinagar

June 12, 2023 Editor

Several local and non-local children, who were forced into begging, were rescued on Monday in Parimpora area of Srinagar, officials said here. An official told that Child Protection Welfare Team raided Parimpora area today and rescued several non-local and local children. He said these children were forced into begging by some brokers. Meanwhile, a senior police official told that Juvenile justice board and Srinagar police jointly carried out the rescue operation. He said 3 children from Parimpora and many from other areas were also rescued.

Army in Bandipora claims AFSPA protection for cutting trees on rented property

June 12, 2023 Editor

A court in Kashmir’s Bandipora district rejected the union government’s argument that the landowner was required to first seek sanction under the Armed Forces Special Powers Act (AFSPA) before filing the recovery suit in a dispute involving the felling of trees on a land taken over by the Army on rent from a civilian. As per Live Law, Principal District Judge Amit Sharma ruled that the status of defendants, which include Union of India and the Army, is not more than a tenant and they were “not supposed to make…

Firing Incident between two groups in Samba leaves three youths injured, Investigation Underway

June 12, 2023 Editor

Firing Incident in Samba leaves three youths injured, Investigation Underway

Three were injured in a firing incident in Rangoor village of Samba district, Jammu and Kashimr on Sunday night, said an official on Monday. All three injured are in their 20s. Two of them are from Samba and one is from Amritsar. Three men were injured in a firing incident following a clash between two groups near a bus stand in Samba district’s Ramgarh sector along the India-Pakistan border early Monday, officials said. All have been shifted to the Government Medical College Jammu for treatment, he said. One injured is…

Addressing Social Issues in Kashmir: Beyond Building Mosques and Social Media Calls

June 12, 2023June 12, 2023 Editor

Prioritizing Social Issues in Kashmir: A Call for Development, Empowerment, and Community Engagem By: Javid Amin Kashmir, known for its scenic beauty and rich cultural heritage, is currently grappling with a range of social issues that require urgent attention. While the construction of mosques and social media donation calls have become prominent, it is essential to prioritize addressing core social issues that impact the lives of the people. This article delves into some of the pressing social problems in Kashmir, such as drug addiction, flesh trade, and the need for…

Revamp in Srinagar: Lessons for Delhi to Learn

June 12, 2023 Editor

Srinagar’s urban landscape is improving, with public spaces, pedestrian facilities, and tourist spots being revamped as part of the Smart Cities Mission. The city’s Polo View Market and Lal Chowk have undergone pedestrianisation and heritage buildings restored. The Jhelum riverfront has also been transformed into a walkable public plaza. The projects were delayed by security threats and civic problems, but most work was completed in the last year. The Srinagar Smart City Limited has taken up 125 projects with a budget of ₹980 crore, 56 of which are complete, with…

Apni Party Chief Altaf Bukhari claims New Delhi holds key to Kashmir Solutions

June 12, 2023 Editor

Apni Party President Altaf Bukhari on Sunday said that despite being the problem creator in Kashmir, New Delhi holds the key to viable solutions in the valley. Bukhari said the Apni Party will ensure the solutions to J&K’s problems come from New Delhi. He said: “The solutions to our problems, created by the centre, lie with the centre. And, I promise you that if the Apni Party receives the mandate to form the next government, we will ensure that New Delhi addresses all these issues to our utmost satisfaction. Everything…